Leah - 18 months 2 days ago <Aug 13 2010 16:59:19>
I think I could help you,
if you live in the UK : visit http://www.welcare.org
it's a charity where it gives under privaliged familes a chance to go on outings, and they can also provide you with clothes, games etc.
if you live in any other countries, i'm sure if you surfed around a bit you could find sites just like that!
I know what your situations like, my mum is disabled, so is my sister, and i live witht them at the moment. you could also apply for other allowances if you wanted?
Hope I helped